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Originally posted by WRiTESiCKRHYMES View Postyeah bro. whats goin on?
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Originally posted by wolverinebball11 View PostWell, I assume you know what's going on with my female situation, correct? I just found out yesterday that my best friend is transferring to a school IN THE SAME CITY AS HER. And they have a major that better fits my ideal career path than my current school does...
she's acting weird, right? like more distant and stuff?
and just so i understand you right, you're saying that a friend of yours is about to go to a school near her that has a major that would do something more for you in life than where you are currently at?
transfer.
worst thing that happens is it doesn't work out for the two of you and you still get the major that is better fitted for you.
its either a win-win or a win-lose situation. either way you win.
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Originally posted by WRiTESiCKRHYMES View Postyeah i know whats goin on with you and your female.
she's acting weird, right? like more distant and stuff?
and just so i understand you right, you're saying that a friend of yours is about to go to a school near her that has a major that would do something more for you in life than where you are currently at?
transfer.
worst thing that happens is it doesn't work out for the two of you and you still get the major that is better fitted for you.
its either a win-win or a win-lose situation. either way you win.
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Originally posted by wolverinebball11 View PostYeah I guess you could say that's what she's doing... But yeah my best friend is transferring to a school in the same place she is (different school, same city). I'm really thinking about transferring, I just need to make sure it's the right decision and that my credits will transfer and that I'll be able to get a job down there etc.
what school do you go to now and where are you transferring to? just curious. and i'd say as long as everything checks out then go for it man. its a big decision so you should definitely think about it but if you feel comfortable with it then do it. your life is your life and where you go to school is up to you, not anybody else like your parents or friends.
and like you said the major is better fitted for what you want to do after school so that is a definite plus. at least you aren't considering moving there just for her. having something to fall back on is the best idea.
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Originally posted by WRiTESiCKRHYMES View Postyour credits transferring is important. especially if they would count towards the major you want. you dont wanna take classes over again...
what school do you go to now and where are you transferring to? just curious. and i'd say as long as everything checks out then go for it man. its a big decision so you should definitely think about it but if you feel comfortable with it then do it. your life is your life and where you go to school is up to you, not anybody else like your parents or friends.
and like you said the major is better fitted for what you want to do after school so that is a definite plus. at least you aren't considering moving there just for her. having something to fall back on is the best idea.
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Originally posted by wolverinebball11 View PostRight now I'm going to the University of Northern Colorado and I'd be transferring to Utah Valley University. I just need to talk it through with everyone to decide if it really is the best thing for me... And I agree that moving there just for her would be stupid. Being in the same city with her would be a HUGE plus, but this way if it doesn't end up working out with her, I'm not jut completely fucked. With the way things have gone, it almost seems like it was meant to be tbh. I've been debating what I want to do with my life for a while now, then yesterday I FINALLY came to a pretty firm decision about it and later the same day, my best friend tells me he's transferring to a school with a better major for what I want to do that's in the same city as the girl.
if it was me i would go to her. idk about the dynamics of your campus or if you like it alot there or have friends there or what but if you are okay with moving and meeting new people and that kind of thing then i'd say go ahead. that's what college is for. you're supposed to discover yourself and if that means you have to go to this other school, then do it.
btw i go to Clemson University in SC. in case you were wondering
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Originally posted by WRiTESiCKRHYMES View Postthat does seem pretty coincidental. idk about "meant to be" just because i just got out of a relationship that i thought was "meant to be" so i might not be the best person to be talking to about this but as far as thinking it over, just be thorough. make sure it really is something that would be better. don't try and make the other major be better for you just to be with her. i will say if it is "meant to be" then she'll be there after your schooling if you stayed where you were. but i know thats not what you want to hear.
if it was me i would go to her. idk about the dynamics of your campus or if you like it alot there or have friends there or what but if you are okay with moving and meeting new people and that kind of thing then i'd say go ahead. that's what college is for. you're supposed to discover yourself and if that means you have to go to this other school, then do it.
btw i go to Clemson University in SC. in case you were wondering
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Originally posted by wolverinebball11 View PostHaha no, that major really is better for me. Obviously it's a tough decision, where I'm at now is the only place I've ever lived outside of my semester in Florida at Disney Maybe something new would be good, idk I need to weigh the pros and cons of both sides.
but yeah its a big decision. don't just throw yourself this way and that way. commit somewhere. whether its where you are now or there with her, stay put eventually.
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