Cut ties with abusive mother?

[nickiminajsitonmyface]

No life story in this thread at all. I'm 19 and I still live with her, although I am moving out by December of next year, I just can't stand my mother anymore. She's verbally abusive, and she is a drug addict. The alcoholic type. She does coke on the weekends too.

I don't have my father, he left when I was 8 and she is really the only family I have in this whole world. Though I have some amazing friends, as far as family she is all I have... Even though she is the way she is...

It's so weird too. She'll be nice for 3 or 4 days and then for another 2 days she'll go off on me for no reason at all. Calling ME crazy when I am the one doing something with my life (something big mind you). She talks bad about me to all her friends, and just makes me look terrible when I really am a blessing to her.

She has no real friends, just one or two who I honestly think just feel bad for her and support her out of pity. The other friends she has abuse her (and she is in denial of it, the friends she goes to snort blow with on the weekends) and the only man she has is a stage 5 clinger and a stalker, who she tried leaving multiple times, but always manages to find himself a way back in to her life.

Her whole life is just fucked up and she even admitted this to me one night when she was crying to me (last year when I left High School, 19 now).

I have talked with her ex boyfriend (the stalker) and he said that she was suicidal, and I don't know if she is still like this now, no idea...

I just hate her now. She likes to make me feel like shit when she is in a bad mood, and I just feel like smacking the shit out of her but I know exactly where that would put me. Fuck that, my morals are better than that too. She just makes me feel so bad about myself sometimes and I can't stand it.

Next year I want to just tell her,

"Fuck you, you are a miserable nobody with no real friends and no happiness in your life. You are going to die old and sick and alone, with nobody to care about you."

It's that bad between me and her sometimes. I just need guidance. You guys always seemed cool so maybe there are some other dysfunctional family people on here who could maybe give me some advice?

I can give out more details too I just need to go for a fucking walk and clear my brain. Love night walks too haha. Thanks guys.

[WeEeEeEzZzZyYy]

tl;dr

if ya want a srs reply then make the story shorter

sincerely, everyone

[nickiminajsitonmyface]

tl;dr

if ya want a srs reply then make the story shorter

sincerely, everyone

Lol come on that is pretty short.

[KidComet]

When'd you come back?

Anyway man, God works miracles in lives, i dunno if you would want to humble yourself and pray to the man upstairs, I know thats not a lot of peoples cup of tea nowadays, but prayer does help.

I just hate to see a son and mom not get a long, me and my mom have a bad history,i dont wanna get into details, but ever since I found God, our relationship is really good

[nickiminajsitonmyface]

When'd you come back?

Anyway man, God works miracles in lives, i dunno if you would want to humble yourself and pray to the man upstairs, I know thats not a lot of peoples cup of tea nowadays, but prayer does help.

I just hate to see a son and mom not get a long, me and my mom have a bad history,i dont wanna get into details, but ever since I found God, our relationship is really good

I pray to Lucifer (joking).

Thanks though.

Maybe I'll go to church or something.

[Lil wayne prezident]

No life story in this thread at all. I'm 19 and I still live with her, although I am moving out by December of next year, I just can't stand my mother anymore. She's verbally abusive, and she is a drug addict. The alcoholic type. She does coke on the weekends too.

I don't have my father, he left when I was 8 and she is really the only family I have in this whole world. Though I have some amazing friends, as far as family she is all I have... Even though she is the way she is...

It's so weird too. She'll be nice for 3 or 4 days and then for another 2 days she'll go off on me for no reason at all. Calling ME crazy when I am the one doing something with my life (something big mind you). She talks bad about me to all her friends, and just makes me look terrible when I really am a blessing to her.

She has no real friends, just one or two who I honestly think just feel bad for her and support her out of pity. The other friends she has abuse her (and she is in denial of it, the friends she goes to snort blow with on the weekends) and the only man she has is a stage 5 clinger and a stalker, who she tried leaving multiple times, but always manages to find himself a way back in to her life.

Her whole life is just fucked up and she even admitted this to me one night when she was crying to me (last year when I left High School, 19 now).

I have talked with her ex boyfriend (the stalker) and he said that she was suicidal, and I don't know if she is still like this now, no idea...

I just hate her now. She likes to make me feel like shit when she is in a bad mood, and I just feel like smacking the shit out of her but I know exactly where that would put me. Fuck that, my morals are better than that too. She just makes me feel so bad about myself sometimes and I can't stand it.

Next year I want to just tell her,

"Fuck you, you are a miserable nobody with no real friends and no happiness in your life. You are going to die old and sick and alone, with nobody to care about you."

It's that bad between me and her sometimes. I just need guidance. You guys always seemed cool so maybe there are some other dysfunctional family people on here who could maybe give me some advice?

I can give out more details too I just need to go for a fucking walk and clear my brain. Love night walks too haha. Thanks guys.

just move out then don't speak to her again.

simples.

[Waynasite]

Young dro - fuck that bitch

[WeEeEeEzZzZyYy]

I pray to Lucifer (joking).

Thanks though.

Maybe I'll go to church or something.

okay i think we now know who is behind the [MENTION=85023]Lucifer[/MENTION] account

it all makes sense too cause i think he started posting when you left

[Mnjaro]

thats fucked :/

id say give her an ultimatum

tell her you're old enough to live on your own now, so either she cleans herself up or you're gone

[VerdantChrysallis]

i say leave if you have to
but not before trying to get her help and getting her into rehab or something

[nickiminajsitonmyface]

Votes so far in,

Cut ties - //
Give it a chance - //
Pray to God - /

Haha, fml.

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People saying take her to a rehab, a lot of people told me I gotta make that work. And I want to play the good forgiving man and do that but it's really, really, really hard to talk to her about it. It's like she doesn't care about herself.

[back on my bullish*t]