Official Dating/Relationship advice thread

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

So..

I met this girl I've been speaking to online on Sunday. We had a great time, and I hung out with her again today, another great time. She likes me in a romantic way but I don't feel that way about her, yet she is very very very nice. She's actually really incredible.

What do I do? I want to be good mates with her but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I also don't want to get in to a situation where I'm sleeping with her and she's expecting more and I can't give it to her (she's attractive).

Any advice fam?

[LilTunƎchi]

So..

I met this girl I've been speaking to online on Sunday. We had a great time, and I hung out with her again today, another great time. She likes me in a romantic way but I don't feel that way about her, yet she is very very very nice. She's actually really incredible.

What do I do? I want to be good mates with her but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I also don't want to get in to a situation where I'm sleeping with her and she's expecting more and I can't give it to her (she's attractive).

Any advice fam?

Just keep it the way it is now & don't mislead her, if she shows u she wants more then put her in the friendzone instantly, and don't feel bad lol it ain't your fault you actually did the right thing.

Oh and i would've smashed if i was you, but idk. You seem kike a nice guy.

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

Just keep it the way it is now & don't mislead her, if she shows u she wants more then put her in the friendzone instantly, and don't feel bad lol it ain't your fault you actually did the right thing.

Oh and i would've smashed if i was you, but idk. You seem kike a nice guy.

Thanks mate

[WeezySVK]

Brahs I need help or advice... just a few hours ago I was out with my homies and well I started texting a girl from my school...

Shes in the first grade and I only knew her from school but I never talked to her and yeah my friends were like "cmon man just text her we are here to help you if you dont know what to write"

Shes cute and the conversation was ok at the beggining but so damn awkward at the end lol she acted shy and a bit uninterested and damn tommorow I will prob see her in school and idk if I even should say hi to her after this

what to do now ? I just ended the conversation with "well im going out was nice to chat with you.. see ya " she just wrote bye without a smiley tho and I just felt weird

[LilTunƎchi]

Brahs I need help or advice... just a few hours ago I was out with my homies and well I started texting a girl from my school...

Shes in the first grade and I only knew her from school but I never talked to her and yeah my friends were like "cmon man just text her we are here to help you if you dont know what to write"

Shes cute and the conversation was ok at the beggining but so damn awkward at the end lol she acted shy and a bit uninterested and damn tommorow I will prob see her in school and idk if I even should say hi to her after this

what to do now ? I just ended the conversation with "well im going out was nice to chat with you.. see ya " she just wrote bye without a smiley tho and I just felt weird

[WeezySVK]

Brah please dont do this to me, I thought I would get some advice, its makin me feel even more worse

[LilTunƎchi]

Brah please dont do this to me, I thought I would get some advice, its makin me feel even more worse

Srry m8, what did you say to her that made her feel shy and uniterested?

[WeezySVK]

Srry m8, what did you say to her that made her feel shy and uniterested?

Well, it was my first time texting with her without even knowing her but from what I seen she seemed to be shy so maybe that wasnt my fault but it were just stupid questions I guess, like why did you choose this school and shit lol

but when I asked her where's she from she told me and said "you ?" but then I replied and she was just like "ok" but yeah how do you reply to a question like that... so i just said then why she choosed this school and not some school in her hometown and stuff to not let the conversation come to an end... but then she said just "bye" and thats when I knew I fked up lol

I think what I just typed makes no sense I would post the chat with her but it aint in english so lol

Its just I wrote maybe round 30 messages with her and the ending sucked idk if I even should greet her when I see her in school or text her again lol

I guess my text game is weak af


Feels bad man

[LilTunƎchi]

Well, it was my first time texting with her without even knowing her but from what I seen she seemed to be shy so maybe that wasnt my fault but it were just stupid questions I guess, like why did you choose this school and shit lol

but when I asked her where's she from she told me and said "you ?" but then I replied and she was just like "ok" but yeah how do you reply to a question like that... so i just said then why she choosed this school and not some school in her hometown and stuff to not let the conversation come to an end... but then she said just "bye" and thats when I knew I fked up lol

I think what I just typed makes no sense I would post the chat with her but it aint in english so lol

Its just I wrote maybe round 30 messages with her and the ending sucked idk if I even should greet her when I see her in school or text her again lol

I guess my text game is weak af


Feels bad man

Don't feel bad man it's not like you cant save this. It's savable, 1 convo doesn't mean it's done. And u said it was small so I bet she doesn't even remember it (no offense lol). you can impress her again and make her forget about it.

I once told a girl on a first convo that i like her boobs and that girl is my girlfriend now so, dont worry. If you see her tomorrow then go casually and say hi and that you enjoyed chatting her yesterday .. Etc and that you hope to talk to her again soon and move on. Keep a confident look and don't freak out.

[WeezySVK]

Don't feel bad man it's not like you cant save this. It's savable, 1 convo doesn't mean it's done. And u said it was small so I bet she doesn't even remember it (no offense lol). you can impress her again and make her forget about it.

I once told a girl on a first convo that i like her boobs and that girl is my girlfriend now so, dont worry. If you see her tomorrow then go casually and say hi and that you enjoyed chatting her yesterday .. Etc and that you hope to talk to her again soon and move on. Keep a confident look and don't freak out.

Yeah man, I guess I gotta keep it cool and confident... hope the next convo will be better... thanks, feelin a bit better now lol

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

Yeah man, I guess I gotta keep it cool and confident... hope the next convo will be better... thanks, feelin a bit better now lol

Play it cool mate no one is super smooth on their first attempt! Kept at her (not in a stalker way) and if she doesn't respond you'll know it's not gonna work out, but don't be discouraged! It takes time to work a girl out and understand what to say to her and what not to

[WeEeEeEzZzZyYy]

So..

I met this girl I've been speaking to online on Sunday. We had a great time, and I hung out with her again today, another great time. She likes me in a romantic way but I don't feel that way about her, yet she is very very very nice. She's actually really incredible.

What do I do? I want to be good mates with her but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I also don't want to get in to a situation where I'm sleeping with her and she's expecting more and I can't give it to her (she's attractive).

Any advice fam?

how did you meet her online?