Official Dating/Relationship advice thread

[WeEeEeEzZzZyYy]

Sup Hq fam this is thread is about discussing your love life & dating world with other members.
Are you seeing anyone? Feel free to tell us about it.
Are you getting married? Feel free to invite us lol.
Do you need any dating tips? Feel free to ask here.
Having relationship issues? Feel free to discuss it here.
You can't get no pussy? Don't worry, Hq fam will get you laid boi.

thx for creating this m8

pls dont ruin it trolls

but i need some advice on my situation m8s

im chatting to this girl and seeing her every week

we aint "officially" in a relationship

but we chill and kiss

aint gone further than that yet

but for some reason i still feel am in the friend zone

like wat da fuck do u say to get out of it

i aint da type of nigga to just be like "lets fuck or am cancelling u bitch"

dat just aint me

[lilwayne-carter]

That's not lame bro. You just need to have some confidence. What is the worst that can happen? She rejects you, and you move on.

All the guys you see who have no problems picking up girls all have one thing in common. They don't give a fuck about getting rejected. I learnt from one of the best, a bloke who took me under his wing and said "Even Brad Pitt is going to strike out 60% of the time. You're going to be closer to 90% of the time. So what do you do? Do you hit on one girl every 5 weeks, and get laid once a year? Or do you hit on ten girls a week and get laid once a week?"

One night this guy, I kid you not, turned up to the club wearing thongs (sandals) with pink toenail polish on his toes. I said what the fuck are you doing?! He said watch this.. Girls literally flocked to him, asking him about his pink nail polish. They thought he was gay. I just sat back and picked off one of the weaker ones..

Confidence!! If you get rejected who gives a fuck. You'll never know if you don't ask.

i know but man its easier said than done aint it

how did you get more confidence?

[LilTunƎchi]

Okay here's my take on this friendzone thing according to my experience, women say they want a nice guy, but still end up chasing bad guys. It's not like movies and shit, if you act too nice or be a gentleman all the time you gon get friendzoned instantly. Heres few of the reasons why:


Nice guys are too nice i mean they try to be perfect for their girlfriends which will make you look unreal, but bad guys 'keep it real' & 'natural' and women love that.

Respect. Nice guys don't have real demands nor set any boundaries which will lead the woman to act all bossy on ya ass, bad guys don't let any woman have control over them or walk all over them, no woman likes a guy they can control, no respect = no affection.

Also there's sth with women's nature idk, just like their children, they think they can 'fix' bad guys, they think their love can make em better, and it's a challenge for them. They don't want to DATE an asshole, they want to be the ones to CHANGE the asshole. They look at it as an 'interesting project'. Nice guys are already fixed and that's no fun.

Nice guys usually don't know what to say sometimes, idk maybe some women like shy guys, but most of women go for bad guys that have this confident look, they call them "alpha males"

I'm not saying stop being a nice person and start acting like a complete jerk, just don't overplay being nice, hold your ground, act a little badass sometimes, don't let the girl get full of herself. Act mysterious sometimes. Don't think how to please her all the time, let her do the thinking sometimes.

Hope this helps some of y'all fam, cheers.

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

i know but man its easier said than done aint it

how did you get more confidence?

I just stopped caring about rejection. I'd been rejected so many times that I figured my self esteem couldnt really get any lower. Plus it became a bit of fun.. I really like pursuing women and trying different things to see what does and doesnt work..

Plus, once you get a few wins under your belt your confidence will grow.

If you really like a girl, the only way you're going to get her is through confidence. So either be unconfident and single, or have a go..

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Okay here's my take on this friendzone thing according to my experience, women say they want a nice guy, but still end up chasing bad guys. It's not like movies and shit, if you act too nice or be a gentleman all the time you gon get friendzoned instantly. Heres few of the reasons why:


Nice guys are too nice i mean they try to be perfect for their girlfriends which will make you look unreal, but bad guys 'keep it real' & 'natural' and women love that.

Respect. Nice guys don't have real demands nor set any boundaries which will lead the woman to act all bossy on ya ass, bad guys don't let any woman have control over them or walk all over them, no woman likes a guy they can control, no respect = no affection.

Also there's sth with women's nature idk, just like their children, they think they can 'fix' bad guys, they think their love can make em better, and it's a challenge for them. They don't want to DATE an asshole, they want to be the ones to CHANGE the asshole. They look at it as an 'interesting project'. Nice guys are already fixed and that's no fun.

Nice guys usually don't know what to say sometimes, idk maybe some women like shy guys, but most of women go for bad guys that have this confident look, they call them "alpha males"

I'm not saying stop being a nice person and start acting like a complete jerk, just don't overplay being nice, hold your ground, act a little badass sometimes, don't let the girl get full of herself. Act mysterious sometimes. Don't think how to please her all the time, let her do the thinking sometimes.

Hope this helps some of y'all fam, cheers.

such good advice, especially the last paragraph. Girls have a primal inbuilt mechanism that encourages them to seek out the strongest males. Be strong, be confident. Draw her in don't go chasing after her

[Yasmine]

Sup Hq fam this is thread is about discussing your love life & dating world with other members.
Are you seeing anyone? Feel free to tell us about it.
Are you getting married? Feel free to invite us lol.
Do you need any dating tips? Feel free to ask here.
Having relationship issues? Feel free to discuss it here.
You can't get no pussy? Don't worry, Hq fam will get you laid boi.

It'll be fun!

[WeezySVK]

thx for creating this m8

pls dont ruin it trolls

but i need some advice on my situation m8s

im chatting to this girl and seeing her every week

we aint "officially" in a relationship

but we chill and kiss

aint gone further than that yet

but for some reason i still feel am in the friend zone

like wat da fuck do u say to get out of it

i aint da type of nigga to just be like "lets fuck or am cancelling u bitch"

dat just aint me

Youre close brah, maybe you just need little bit more confidence to make a further move cuz when you wont go further anytime soon she maybe will think that you take her only as a friend and she will move on.

Idk, working out helps me to get a better confidence maybe try that if you dont workout already.

[Yasmine]

Act mysterious sometimes. Don't think how to please her all the time, let her do the thinking sometimes.

Hope this helps some of y'all fam, cheers.

I really like this part!!!! So professional

[WeEeEeEzZzZyYy]

I'm not saying stop being a nice person and start acting like a complete jerk, just don't overplay being nice, hold your ground, act a little badass sometimes, don't let the girl get full of herself. Act mysterious sometimes. Don't think how to please her all the time, let her do the thinking sometimes.

you got some things that i can do to her with is "badass" and "mysterious" brah?

Youre close brah, maybe you just need little bit more confidence to make a further move cuz when you wont go further anytime soon she maybe will think that you take her only as a friend and she will move on.

Idk, working out helps me to get a better confidence maybe try that if you dont workout already.

whats a "further move" tho brah?

and nah am a skinny mothafucka lol

i srsly have no motivation to go to the gym which sucks

[IAmChristian_]

Lol, this thread.

[lilwayne-carter]

I just stopped caring about rejection. I'd been rejected so many times that I figured my self esteem couldnt really get any lower. Plus it became a bit of fun.. I really like pursuing women and trying different things to see what does and doesnt work..

Plus, once you get a few wins under your belt your confidence will grow.

If you really like a girl, the only way you're going to get her is through confidence. So either be unconfident and single, or have a go..

i find that hard

does being drunk help with you at first lol?

[Mnjaro]

you got some things that i can do to her with is "badass" and "mysterious" brah?




whats a "further move" tho brah?

and nah am a skinny mothafucka lol

i srsly have no motivation to go to the gym which sucks

further move- when you're making out with her, try going for more, if she lets you than your set, if she hesitates just ask what's up, and you'll get your answer

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i find that hard

does being drunk help with you at first lol?

yep lol, helps with not giving a fuck if you get rejected by the girl, just drink til you start to feel nice, don't get to hammered or you'll look like an idiot lol

[WeezySVK]

whats a "further move" tho brah?

and nah am a skinny mothafucka lol

i srsly have no motivation to go to the gym which sucks

Agree with what @Mnjaro said bout the further move and honestly im also skinny and shit but I workout and eat more and doing good...

if you got a gym nearby just go for it... you could get into a good shape till summer and then you can go swimming somewhere with her and you will see that she will like it and you will have also better confidence trust me lol