Official Dating/Relationship advice thread

[LilTunƎchi]

Like how I can be getting into a girl and then she is also talking to other boys

Like wtf smh


It sucks

They always do that, just don't show her it's bugging you so she doesn't get full of herself. Get more girl-friends of your own so it could balance

[Liz]

my girl put us on a "break"
All because I'm too boring and don't listen. That and she doesn't know what she wants right now.

shiiiitt how do I change and keep her?

Been with her for 6 months and known her for a year. that's my bae right there.
SPOILER
seriously though

Sorry, but [MENTION=7792]Wisheezy[/MENTION] hit the nail on this one. I know because Ive done that before. I knew I wanted out but if I tried to tell him that he'd flip out on me, and I didn't want to hurt him I just wanted gone.

The other option is she wants to date someone else but still wants you around in case it doesn't work with him, and if that's the case you just need to walk away because even if they don't work and she comes back she ll just do it to you again.

In my case we did get back together after 7 months, but we d been together a much longer time than you have and if it hadn't been for extraordinary circumstances we wouldn't have. It's not common.

In your case if she won't work on things I'd advise you to let it go and move on. If at some point in the future you both want to try again, cool, but don't count on it or waste your time worrying about it. Also chances are she's not telling you the real reason she wants out, so don't worry to much about the reasons she gave you.

[Waynasite]

They always do that, just don't show her it's bugging you so she doesn't get full of herself. Get more girl-friends of your own so it could balance

That's good advice thank you

I do like her tho which sucks

[back on my bullish*t]

my girl put us on a "break"
All because I'm too boring and don't listen. That and she doesn't know what she wants right now.

shiiiitt how do I change and keep her?

Been with her for 6 months and known her for a year. that's my bae right there.
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seriously though

bruh you got to try and make her jealous
you got any other girl friends you can talk to??
once she gets a bit jelly she will come straight back to you

[Flame Beats]

bruh you got to try and make her jealous
you got any other girl friends you can talk to??
once she gets a bit jelly she will come straight back to you

Nah that's not it. We talked about it. Pretty much, she's a party girl and I'm a buzzkill that doesn't listen.

She said she'd most likely take me back if I change. I just need to be more fun and retain the things she says. And that would include listening to her backseat driving too

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

Nah that's not it. We talked about it. Pretty much, she's a party girl and I'm a buzzkill that doesn't listen.

She said she'd most likely take me back if I change. I just need to be more fun and retain the things she says. And that would include listening to her backseat driving too

Damn.. Maybe you need to cut loose a bit? I'm definitely not a party animal so it would be hard for me.. Sounds like she wants you out there on the dancefloor with her? Thats better than her saying "you're too dull leave me alone for good"

[My Hubbie]

What's funny ?

u talkin bout the girl I made a thread about one-two years ago?

[Wisheezy]

u talkin bout the girl I made a thread about one-two years ago?

Nope, this was about 5-6 years ago with a diff girl.

[back on my bullish*t]

Nah that's not it. We talked about it. Pretty much, she's a party girl and I'm a buzzkill that doesn't listen.

She said she'd most likely take me back if I change. I just need to be more fun and retain the things she says. And that would include listening to her backseat driving too

what do you enjoy doing for fun bruh??
you should go to the club with her at least once a weekend

[Yasmine]

Nah that's not it. We talked about it. Pretty much, she's a party girl and I'm a buzzkill that doesn't listen.

She said she'd most likely take me back if I change. I just need to be more fun and retain the things she says. And that would include listening to her backseat driving too

. So why she chose you from the first ? Weren't ya like this then ! ? I can't get what she means but I guess there is another guy around .

[Theonlydjorkaeff]

. So why she chose you from the first ? Weren't ya like this then ! ? I can't get what she means but I guess there is another guy around .

thats what annoys me about some girls. they date you then they try to change you..

like if i wasnt good enough to begin with, why bother?

[Yasmine]

thats what annoys me about some girls. they date you then they try to change you..

like if i wasnt good enough to begin with, why bother?

I understand what you say but it's a complicated idea that some girls have , like they want someone to be like 5 men at the same time,one who cares about her, one who makes her jealous, one who is hard to get, and one who appreciates her and one who loves her!!! If you show more of different personalities like a movie full of characters , then you can make her amused !!! Have you heard that women can do several different things at the same time but men only focus on one thing they're doing ??? It's exactly related to that attitude I told you!